Who has the problem?

To people who are bullied in or out of school there are some observations to be made.  One observation is that you are not the only one being bullied by this person.  You may have noticed this a long time ago and may have made social connections between you and those peers that have also been bullied.  Is it because you are all freaks and outcasts?  This is probably what you are thinking consciously or subconsciously.  That's the thing that brings you together with the others that are bullied.  If you take a closer look at them you'll see the differences between you and those others.  Or you may not.  It's not a bad thing that this has brought you together.  I am merely pointing out that you are not a freak and they are not freaks and that is because you all are different from each other in various ways.

Now what if you see this same bully doing wrong to one person and then the next day or later that day, they're on someone else's butt.  What do you think about this bully?  You'd think they had a problem and that's exactly what it is.  People who are not bullied are actually seeing the bully as a messed up person.

You may also note that this bully does only one person at a time normally.  He/She does not point to one person, one second and then walk down the hall and only a few seconds later point at another and bully them.  They don't go from one to the other, randomly so quickly.  This is one of their tactics.  If they can bully one person, then that's enough for them for a little while.  Not only that, but if they went so rapidly from one person to the next, they know how obvious they look as far as having a problem.

They do bully groups, but not each individual so quickly.  If they see a group of goths or emos, they may pick on them, because they're so easy to group together.  They know everyone else will see those people as a sort of organized group of people.  They know those people have things in common.  But never will you see them pick on one individual and then the next so quickly.  It's one group or one individual at a time.

Bullies don't want to make themselves obvious.  However they are obvious to some not bullied.  If you're bullied right now, then it's time to open your eyes to their tactics and their obvious flaws.  It is not you, it's them.  If you saw them bully you, then a second later bully a person that you have no idea who is and they do this rapidly, then you'd see the person has a problem.  They make it look not obvious.  They play tricks on your mind to make it look like you are the problem or those you hang out with are the problem.

In the end I think you should carefully observe them and process every move they make in a completely different way than you do now.